Two times in the middle of the night she woke up (I think with a bad dream.) She was yelling at me and kicking and "running" under the covers. I woke up with her both times and she was crying. I thought she might need to go to the bathroom, so I took her. She was mad and kept yelling "NO!". I was frustrated because Grandma needed her sleep. She was waking the whole house up. It was upsetting and I kept trying to reason with her and really was losing my temper. (Why do I bother trying to reason with a three year old?) She kept crying.
I finally just put her back to bed with us. She kept whimpering and wouldn't go back to sleep. The words came into my head of what I should say to her. "I love you, Avalon. I'm sorry I got angry." I didn't want to say the words--can we say prideful? Then, I recognized that it was a SGBD moment. So, I reached over, rubbed her back a minute and said just was the spirit told me to say. She whimpered one more time and went to sleep.
We both woke up happy and ready for a new day.
I thought I left a message for you Lisa but it appears to not have posted. I understand the late night difficulties with little ones. I wish I had been more aware of simple SGBD's then. Hang in there.
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